Right after I posted the last blog, it happened: I pooped my
pants. You’d think being 21 years old that I would be able to control it, but
it just happened. Thankfully I was alone able to shower when it happened. I
guess I’m a REAL volunteer now!
It has been hard to integrate into my community because they
aren’t sure what to think of me. I’m the first volunteer they have had and some
people think I’m Chinese because some Chinese volunteers are doing a water
project nearby. They are unsure if I know Swahili or if I speak English or
what. With that being said, I went to a soccer match to celebrate the end of Ramadan.
It was our village team against a nearby village’s team. My house girl (the
last day she was with me) and my Mkuu’s house girl escorted me. It was so
intimidating. Probably about 300 people were milling around outside the field
and it became dead silent when I walked up. Everyone turned to stare at me and
a mob of children inched closer but wouldn’t speak. I was smiling as big as I
could to keep from crying. My Mkuu met us there with some of the students that
live with him. My Mkuu said everyone was surprised to see me. Well, duh. I’m
pretty sure the village officers had to have meetings about me coming, and with
the way word spreads in a village, I don’t know why they WOULDN’T expect me to
be there. I was thankful to be escorted by Fausta and Amina. We went inside and
were standing in the “women and children” section of the field and someone
important called us over to sit on a bench. There are only 4 benches in the
whole stadium, so we were sitting with all the elders and respected people. Of
course, the fee for this special treatment: the man who invited me over got to
take my picture on his phone. As the players entered, they all shook our hands,
so that was pretty cool. A blind man who spoke perfect English came over to
greet me also. As we left, a few people yelled “I love you” and then a mob
formed again as the blind man asked me for my phone number.
I went to the beach house in Mtwara for 2 nights and it was
the perfect break for me. We went to celebrate another volunteer’s birthday
(and I needed to use the bank and buy a bicycle). It was a last-minute decision
for me to go because I wasn’t sure how my Mkuu would react. He wrote me a
permission slip to go into town…but I went! It only took a little over 3 hours
to get there from Ndanda. The other girls had been planning this for a while,
so they went shopping when we arrived and we made American food. We had chili
cheese dogs for dinner, followed by a birthday cake. Then omelets for
breakfast, hummus for lunch and pizza for dinner. I ended up staying the second
night because when I went to buy my bicycle, I just thought I would put it on the
top of the daladala and take it back to my site right then. But the fundi has
to “tengeneza” (put together/repair) bikes before you can even sit on them.
They are just slapped together for display purposes, and also so people don’t
steal them. We swam in the ocean (amongst naked Tanzanian boys who were trying
to swim near us) for a good hour one evening, and just lounged on the beach the
next day. I love the beach house in Mtwara and can’t wait to go back!
When I got back to my site I was finally alone. I have just
been organizing my house and trying to cook. I hung my hammock in my living
room and it is AWESOME. I hang a light on the window so I can read at night. I
think that is my favorite part of my house! I arranged my kitchen and set up a
“sink” outside. I’m waiting for a cabinet to be made for my kitchen now. A
mouse ate some chicken bouillon cubes, so I want to get my food and dishes off
the ground. I have gone to a seamstress in the village twice now and I love
going there! She is the sister of the bajaj driver. She is very patient with me
and has good relationships with her neighbors, so they come to hang out while
she works. She cut and sewed a kanga, made 2 little zippered coin purses, and
is working on a skirt now. I tried going to another fundi just to distribute
business, but he had horrible cataracts, was drunk, and was groping me instead
of actually taking measurements.
The Tanzanian Census is going on right now, which is why
there is a school break. When I came into Ndanda I was charging my phone at
Mikey’s house when this lady came to do the census. It took awhile to explain
to her that I didn’t live there. The next day I ended up doing the census at my
village. The questions were awkward and I laughed at a lot of them. It was
weird to say that I am the head of my household. He didn’t believe me when I
said I was 21 either. I thought it was interesting that they never ask a
question about Ethnicity. In America that is so standard, but here, they just
assume everyone is black! There were questions about
health/mobility/vision/hearing; types of appliances you own (radio, TV, fridge,
hot plate, computer); employment history. It is really weird for them that I
live in a 3-bedroom house, alone. My Mkuu has about 6-8 people sleeping at his
house each night.
I have been having health problems, so was told to come into
Ndanda to go to the hospital. I have had diarrhea for about a month straight,
and I have a bone growth on my clavicle. Anyway, once I had my doctor explain
over the phone why I was there to the intake nurse, I was escorted to a room.
The doctor spoke English, but he didn’t really understand that I needed a stool
sample. I told him in Swahili “I need to poop in a cup” and he just asked me
why. I got my PC Doctor back on the phone and he explained and then all of a
sudden the doctor reaches across the table for my chest. He was feeling my collarbone,
but still, I didn’t have any warning. He determined it was “hardy” and “boney”.
So I’m going to Dar on Monday to see the PC Doctor.
Currently I am back in Ndanda waiting to go to Dar. I went
to Masasi to go to the Posta and see where things are, and it doesn’t make
sense for me to go back to my site, when I need to board the bus here at 6am.
People in Ndanda are actually interested in me. At least 10 people know my name
(it’s Allen, didn’t you know? They add the “y” sound on the end of EVERYTHING
(Jakc-y, gift-y, guest-y, friend-y), but somehow think I’m saying Allen. Maybe
I’ll start introducing myself as Al.) and yell to me when I walk around. I like
being known here and more people here know how to speak slowly for me to
understand. I got another marriage proposal yesterday. He was a 42-year-old
farmer in Masasi. When I told him no, he said he wanted to give me a gift
(“jifti”) of a cow so that I could drink milk everyday. Today I will go
swimming in the pond and learn how to play bao (kind of like Moncala but has 4
rows instead of 2).
I will have internet access until Tuesday night at
least-possibly longer depending on my diagnosis and treatment in Dar. Feel free
ask me questions, or request topics to discuss in future blogs. I will be
writing about: cultural differences, money conversions, typical food, typical
day (once I start teaching), education issues, and water issues.